tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-930774635438710005.post6381727570149918610..comments2021-09-15T23:48:26.864-07:00Comments on Surviving Female Friendships: The Value of Your WordsSurviving Female Friendshipshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06821659948626001685noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-930774635438710005.post-76175383589898886082013-07-02T17:52:25.508-07:002013-07-02T17:52:25.508-07:00Good points, Nicki! Thanks for sharing!Good points, Nicki! Thanks for sharing!Surviving Female Friendshipshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06821659948626001685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-930774635438710005.post-69534910269388738232013-07-02T16:10:48.443-07:002013-07-02T16:10:48.443-07:00You can't take friends not following through p...You can't take friends not following through personally. I would almost guarantee your friend never not follows through because they're trying to hurt you -- they're just most concerned with helping themselves in that moment. That's when you should evaluate whether or not you're willing to be friends with someone who doesn't value your time or energy. A good friend shows you they value you in countless ways and will make up for it if they let you down. Nicki Escuderohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03285510414041827604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-930774635438710005.post-75161719454073203952013-06-25T15:16:27.381-07:002013-06-25T15:16:27.381-07:00Kelly, I couldn't agree more!Kelly, I couldn't agree more! Surviving Female Friendshipshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06821659948626001685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-930774635438710005.post-7026065096509837642013-06-25T15:04:23.369-07:002013-06-25T15:04:23.369-07:00Yes, I agree. I have one or two flakey friends, bu...Yes, I agree. I have one or two flakey friends, but they are not close friends for the reason that I have very little patience for people who are ALWAYS flakey- I understand once or twice but not often. Also, at the very least if you said you are going to do something and then can't, at least tell me, don't just not show up/not call back etc. I put a lot of pressure on myself to follow through so I expect others to do the same, when possible :) Kelly (She Wears a Red Sox Cap)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04415604174106394910noreply@blogger.com