Do you like coffee? Do you like to read? I have the event for you!
I'll be selling and signing books at Lo Fi Coffee in Mesa on Saturday, May 2nd from 9 to 11 am.
Details:
Facebook event
Hope to see you there!
Ever since the book came out, I've received feedback about how it's made women think about friendships throughout their lives, as well as who is in their lives now. The goal of this blog is to open up and create a dialogue about friendships: the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Each week I will post my thoughts, experiences, as well as various articles, topics or quotes that I feel are important when examining female friendships. Please feel free to leave comments; I look forward to hearing from you!
Email me: survivingfemalefriendships@gmail.com
Tuesday, April 28, 2015
Tuesday, April 14, 2015
How To Date and Spend Time With Your Friends
I came across an article that discusses what many of us experience when we're dating: trying to keep up with your friendships while in a romantic relationship. In 3 Ways to Maintain Your Friendships While Falling in Love, Gabriel offers great suggestions to make it work.
An excerpt:
"Integrate Your Life
There seems to be an ever increasing trend of separating out the many different people in our lives. By the time we graduate from college, many of us will have college friends, high-school friends, work friends, and then our boyfriend. But it’s no wonder we can find balancing friendships stressful—we are literally juggling them, refusing to let them bump into one another. Quit the circus and let your friends mix; it makes it easier on you and gives your friends the opportunity to broaden their own circles.
CALL A HAPPY HOUR AND INVITE EVERYONE
My brother-in-law does this and I think it’s genius. Send out a Google Calendar or Facebook invite to all of your friends and then sit back and relax. Your friends will make new contacts while you touch base with a handful of your friends. If you’re sick of happy hours, try arranging a hike. Hiking provides an excellent and natural way for people to mingle; you are usually walking two-by-two, but inevitably, someone falls behind and another person moves up!
DOUBLE DATE
It is a shame that more people don’t regularly double date. Invite your friend and her boyfriend for dinner or even just after-dinner drinks. If your friend is single, have your boyfriend produce a single friend to bring along too. This conveniently allows you to spend time with your boyfriend and girlfriend in a natural way and provides an opportunity for your friends to get to know your boyfriend—which helps when you need a second opinion."
Would you offer any other suggestions? What works for you?
An excerpt:
"Integrate Your Life
There seems to be an ever increasing trend of separating out the many different people in our lives. By the time we graduate from college, many of us will have college friends, high-school friends, work friends, and then our boyfriend. But it’s no wonder we can find balancing friendships stressful—we are literally juggling them, refusing to let them bump into one another. Quit the circus and let your friends mix; it makes it easier on you and gives your friends the opportunity to broaden their own circles.
CALL A HAPPY HOUR AND INVITE EVERYONE
My brother-in-law does this and I think it’s genius. Send out a Google Calendar or Facebook invite to all of your friends and then sit back and relax. Your friends will make new contacts while you touch base with a handful of your friends. If you’re sick of happy hours, try arranging a hike. Hiking provides an excellent and natural way for people to mingle; you are usually walking two-by-two, but inevitably, someone falls behind and another person moves up!
DOUBLE DATE
It is a shame that more people don’t regularly double date. Invite your friend and her boyfriend for dinner or even just after-dinner drinks. If your friend is single, have your boyfriend produce a single friend to bring along too. This conveniently allows you to spend time with your boyfriend and girlfriend in a natural way and provides an opportunity for your friends to get to know your boyfriend—which helps when you need a second opinion."
Would you offer any other suggestions? What works for you?
Tuesday, March 31, 2015
Happy Galentine's Day!
I realize I'm a month late (hey, better late than never!), but found this great article about best friends in the music industry. Would you add any other BFFs?
Happy Galentine's Day! 18 Female Friendships in Music by Jeff Benjamin and Ariel LeBeau
Happy Galentine's Day! 18 Female Friendships in Music by Jeff Benjamin and Ariel LeBeau
Tuesday, March 17, 2015
NASW
I'm excited to share an article that ran in the March 2015 NASW (National Association of Social Workers) newsletter:
Social Work in the Public Eye
(Scroll down to the bottom of the page to view the article.)
If you haven't read the article it's referring to, click the link below:
Why is it difficult to make friends after 30?
Social Work in the Public Eye
(Scroll down to the bottom of the page to view the article.)
If you haven't read the article it's referring to, click the link below:
Why is it difficult to make friends after 30?
Tuesday, March 3, 2015
Upcoming Radio Interview
Mark your calendars! I'll be interviewed on the radio by Francesca Luca on March 7th about my book.
Details below:
Saturday 3/7/15 from 7-8:00 am on 1510 AM WMEX RADIO Boston and 106.1 FM Newburyport
Talk With Francesca
OR after the interview airs, click on the link below to listen in if you're not in these areas:
Recent Shows
Details below:
Saturday 3/7/15 from 7-8:00 am on 1510 AM WMEX RADIO Boston and 106.1 FM Newburyport
Talk With Francesca
OR after the interview airs, click on the link below to listen in if you're not in these areas:
Recent Shows
Tuesday, February 17, 2015
Articles To Share!
Check out some articles I was interviewed for:
The Break Up with Anything Guide by Tanya Sharma
Be a Better Long-Distance Friend by Natasha Burton
Why is it difficult to make friends after 30? by Jaci Conry
Are You Compromising Too Often In Your Friendships? by Danielle Page
Enjoy!
The Break Up with Anything Guide by Tanya Sharma
Be a Better Long-Distance Friend by Natasha Burton
Why is it difficult to make friends after 30? by Jaci Conry
Are You Compromising Too Often In Your Friendships? by Danielle Page
Enjoy!
Tuesday, February 3, 2015
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