I'm thrilled to share two more articles I was interviewed for. One is on the pros and cons of mommy cliques, and how to cope with them. The other is on some of the friendship changes that take place in your mid 20s, and how to manage them.
Mommy Cliques by Lucy Adams
An excerpt:
"When functioning well, however, mom groups lighten life’s load. Securing
a circle of support can be critical to a woman’s well-being. A group of
women with a common tie makes a great sounding board for each other
when working out solutions to problems. The group is a safe place to
vent frustrations and receive encouragement. Group members bring out the
best in each other. They cheer on successes, and when crisis strikes
they arrive with casseroles. A strong clique of female friends provides a
sense of place and belonging in a world in which families are far-flung
from their roots."
Why Friendship Changes In Your Mid20s by Danielle Page
An excerpt:
"Expectations change. According to Nicole, all friendships come
with expectations — expectations that our friend will show up when we
schedule plans, expectations that our friend will call us back when she
had to take another call, etc. It’s not unusual for expectations to
change as you become busier and have more responsibilities. Maybe your
friend can’t spend as much time with you, or isn’t there for you during a
difficult time due to her own busy schedule, so you have to shift your
expectations of this friend.
It’s important to acknowledge that one friend can’t do everything or
be everything. Learn to honor your friendship’s limits, and to
appreciate what your friend does do."
Enjoy!
Ever since the book came out, I've received feedback about how it's made women think about friendships throughout their lives, as well as who is in their lives now. The goal of this blog is to open up and create a dialogue about friendships: the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Each week I will post my thoughts, experiences, as well as various articles, topics or quotes that I feel are important when examining female friendships. Please feel free to leave comments; I look forward to hearing from you!
Email me: survivingfemalefriendships@gmail.com
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