As we become older, many
of us "settle down" and find a place where we see
ourselves living for a long time - at least that's the goal,
right?! For some, it's having a beach nearby; for others, it's having
(and experiencing) four seasons. Some go where their work takes
them, while others choose the location because their family lives
there.
For me, I re-located for two
reasons: one due to Arizona's warm and sunny weather, and the second
due to having family close by. I actually re-located from a place where I
had a good network of friends - so it was a tough decision to make.
Remember, our family are our friends, too! I've had to make new friends
and keep in contact with old ones, so thankfully it has been a somewhat
smooth transition.
Location is important when looking
at our friendships. Many of my close friends live in other places and so
we maintain our friendship through text, e-mail and phone calls. Of
course, I wish I could see these friends more regularly, but it's just not
possible unless someone moves (which I don't see happening in the
near future).
Which factors did you consider when
deciding on where to live? Was it family, friends and/or work? Or
did you not have a say in the matter? Did where you friends live
factor into your decision?
Eric and I have stayed here because of family, though we do yell at ourselves often for choosing to live in a place with such bad weather. We often joke that we should just move both our families to Hawaii, or Arizona :) A lot of my friends live nearby too, but those that don't I keep in touch with through the phone, facebook, gchat etc :)
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