Ever since the book came out, I've received feedback about how it's made women think about friendships throughout their lives, as well as who is in their lives now. The goal of this blog is to open up and create a dialogue about friendships: the good, the bad, and the ugly.
Each week I will post my thoughts, experiences, as well as various articles, topics or quotes that I feel are important when examining female friendships. Please feel free to leave comments; I look forward to hearing from you!
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Monday, January 28, 2013
The episode focused on the roommates' Pogos and what they are, such as being the know-it-all (Jess) and having gross toenails (Schmidt). As a viewer, it was interesting to see how the characters reacted to finding out what their Pogo is and that their friends talk about it behind their backs. It made me think of what my Pogo is - what my friends talk about behind my back that they can't stand. Maybe it's my weird sense of humor or my need to be early to everything? Actually, don't answer that...
I also thought about the idea behind Pogo-ing: that even our closest friends talk about us behind our backs. I would be lying to say that this doesn't happen. There are things our friends do or say that bother us and/or things that we don't like about our friends, yet many of us are afraid to speak up or do not want to hurt our friend's feelings. For example, Schmidt's gross toenails - I probably would not tell my BFF if she had gross toenails. There's being honest and then being just plain rude and insulting.
The whole idea of Pogo-ing is interesting, especially how it relates to female friendship, and how there are some things you don't talk about in front of your friends - rather, you do it behind their backs. So horrible, but kind of true.
What are your thoughts about this? What's your Pogo? What are your friends' Pogos?